After 4 years of volunteering, 2 years as an intern, and 1 year as a Jr. High pastor, I am still struggling to learn how to be a successful youth pastor. I don't even really know what a "successful" youth pastor looks like, but here are some things I have learned the hard way.
1. Not everyone likes the way you run youth ministry
2. Have staff with you who can handle injuries and blood.
3. Check the intentions of potential volunteers. (some people are crazy)
4. Never mention Gold Bond to your students.
5. Some volunteers who are older and have been their a while will sometimes try to take control.
6. Have thick skin. Sometimes students will insult you for no reason.
7. Don't play favorites. Students get hurt by it.
8. DELEGATE, DELEGATE, DELEGATE. Don't be a one man show on Sunday Morning.
9. Build relationships. Some students are hurting way more than you will ever know.
10. Learn how to deal with awkwardness. ie. Parents and/or students who come to you crying, come to you angry, or want to talk to you about Gold Bond.)
There is much more that I have learned. This year has definitely had its ups and downs but the ups make it all worth it.
